Obtaining Your Family's Medical History: Do You Know Yours?
As children our mother’s know everything about our health history. She knows what vaccines we received, what ailments we suffered from, even when we lost our first tooth. But how many of us know our own family’s medical history? While it may seem a tad uncomfortable to ask such personal questions from our parents, unlocking their health history many times can unlock the door to our own health.
According to the Department of Health and Human Services, 96% of Americans rank the need to know one’s family health history as important, however only one-third of us actually take the time to assemble this data. This information is vital not only for you, but for your physician or health care provider as it can help them to determine your risks for many health issues including heart disease, cancer, diabetes, etc.
There are forms available from the American Medical Association and the Centers for Disease Control which can assist you as to what information needs to be obtained. If you prefer to keep an online family history, you can visit the U.S. Surgeon General’s Office at the following Family History Link to begin your Family Medical Record Keeping.
For many a prime time for gathering such health histories is during a family reunion or family holiday, however, it is important to note for many parents this topic can be a little unsettling and you do not want to spring this on them without advance notice. Nonetheless, sitting down with them and explaining the necessity for you to know their medical history may help relieve some of the tension. But in all fairness give them the opportunity to compile the data. You may want to give them the list of questions they will need to answer well in advance. Attempting to remember the dates of any illnesses they may have suffered from or any treatments they may have received may require some investigation on their part, especially if they are offering medical histories regarding their deceased parents and/or siblings.
It is very important to be as specific as possible, while still respecting your parent’s privacy. Reassure your parents that this information is only to be shared with you, your doctor, and your siblings, if they so choose. Once you have the initial talk, it is time to determine what information needs to be obtained.
Below are some of the more commonly asked questions your own physician may need to know.
For many adopted individuals, you may want to ask your parents if they were given your biological parent’s medical history. Depending on the circumstances surrounding the adoption, this may or may not be an option.
While a family history will not entirely protect you from the development of certain diseases and/or conditions, they do serve as a vital resource for your physician and you. They allow your physician to determine your risk factors for disease therefore, providing you a means to adopt healthy measures to slow the disease process, avoid the disease process altogether, or allow your physician to closely monitor your health status for possible issues down the road.
Do you know your family medical history? If not, would you consider using the upcoming holidays as a time to gather such information?
According to the Department of Health and Human Services, 96% of Americans rank the need to know one’s family health history as important, however only one-third of us actually take the time to assemble this data. This information is vital not only for you, but for your physician or health care provider as it can help them to determine your risks for many health issues including heart disease, cancer, diabetes, etc.
There are forms available from the American Medical Association and the Centers for Disease Control which can assist you as to what information needs to be obtained. If you prefer to keep an online family history, you can visit the U.S. Surgeon General’s Office at the following Family History Link to begin your Family Medical Record Keeping.
For many a prime time for gathering such health histories is during a family reunion or family holiday, however, it is important to note for many parents this topic can be a little unsettling and you do not want to spring this on them without advance notice. Nonetheless, sitting down with them and explaining the necessity for you to know their medical history may help relieve some of the tension. But in all fairness give them the opportunity to compile the data. You may want to give them the list of questions they will need to answer well in advance. Attempting to remember the dates of any illnesses they may have suffered from or any treatments they may have received may require some investigation on their part, especially if they are offering medical histories regarding their deceased parents and/or siblings.
It is very important to be as specific as possible, while still respecting your parent’s privacy. Reassure your parents that this information is only to be shared with you, your doctor, and your siblings, if they so choose. Once you have the initial talk, it is time to determine what information needs to be obtained.
Below are some of the more commonly asked questions your own physician may need to know.
- Dates of onset of a disease or medical condition. The earlier in life a family member has been diagnosed with a disease, the more likely there may be a genetic pre-disposition.
- Many chronic diseases such as heart disease and type II diabetes may be life-long conditions therefore, knowing symptoms and treatments, if any, will also play a vital role.
- What are/were their health habits? Did/Do they smoke? What type of diet did/do they consume? What activities did/do they participate in?
- If deceased, note the cause and age at the time of death.
- All illnesses and conditions need to be accounted for regardless of the severity. Evidence supports a strong link between heart disease and diabetes, as well as rheumatoid arthritis and heart disease.
- Include such information as high cholesterol, blood pressure, depression, kidney disease, and alcohol/drug dependency issues. Once again note the age of onset.
- And women, don’t hesitate to ask about your mother’s pregnancy and menopausal histories, including pregnancy complications, miscarriages, stillbirths, and age of onset for menopause.
For many adopted individuals, you may want to ask your parents if they were given your biological parent’s medical history. Depending on the circumstances surrounding the adoption, this may or may not be an option.
While a family history will not entirely protect you from the development of certain diseases and/or conditions, they do serve as a vital resource for your physician and you. They allow your physician to determine your risk factors for disease therefore, providing you a means to adopt healthy measures to slow the disease process, avoid the disease process altogether, or allow your physician to closely monitor your health status for possible issues down the road.
Do you know your family medical history? If not, would you consider using the upcoming holidays as a time to gather such information?
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Comments
Another point: What can DNA tell us? - 11/17/2009 1:55:49 PM
My grandma had breast cancer when my mom was very young. My grandma kept it a secret for so many years until she was a senior that required help. My mom is a RN and is comfortable talking about health. My grandma was also a nurse but was not comfortable with the subject. My mom was shocked to find out her mom had surgery that extreme. - 10/30/2009 9:16:21 PM
I am adopted and the state of Texas doesn't think adult adoptees have rights to their adoption files. So many of us do not have medical history available and what was considered relevant in the 40s and 50s is laughable today. I know I don't have "the dread disease of epilepsy" in my history but nothing was said about heart disease or cancer. Sad isn't it? - 10/26/2009 8:52:18 PM
My husband did not know his parents. In 1965, he was brought to his foster family by who he thinks was his biological mother. He thinks his foster parents were his aunt and uncle. They never adopted him formally. His birth certificate has the name of a famous 1960s soap actress' character as the Mother. There is no way of knowing if the Father's name is even real! So my hubby's kids (age 14 and twins age 13) only have their mother's medical history to go by. - 10/26/2009 5:38:19 PM
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"If I lived in the US I'd be afraid that revealing down this kind of information could result in it being hacked or demanded by an insurance company as a condition of coverage: and then result in denied health insurance . . . or anywhere, life insurance." - 10/26/2009 2:06:35 PM
Nancy, I sure do appreciate this blog, and the fact that Spark People always keeps us so well informed and thinking of health issues. - 10/25/2009 5:50:56 PM
with so many children now being born out of wedlock and mothers not sure who the fathers are it has to be very hard to follow a family medical history
One day at a time - 10/25/2009 4:00:05 PM
Knowing my family's history has helped me and my doctor diagnose problems that I have had - I had my gall bladder removed a couple of years ago. My dad had his removed when he was around 40, my mom had hers removed when she was over 70 after it caused a really scary bout of pancreatitis, then my sister had hers removed a little over a year before mine was removed. Knowing all the symptoms my mom had, then confirming some things with my dad and sister got me to the doctor. When I went over the family history with him and my symptoms, he sent me for the ultrasound and I had surgery within a couple of weeks. The surgeon said it had been extremely inflamed and full of stones. I am so thankful I had mine removed because a stone is what caused my mom's severe pancreatitis. It was so bad, the doctors were amazed that she even survived.
I am really thankful that I know what I do because my oldest brother is adopted and knows nothing. - 10/25/2009 10:49:16 AM
i'm in the dark.
i do know my dad died when he was 57 from complications from diabetes and my mom died at 64 from lung/pancreatic cancer. i'm hoping to live longer than both of them and sparkpeople is helping me do that! - 10/25/2009 7:59:48 AM
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