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Operation Beautiful: Random Acts of Inner Beauty

By: dailySpark Guest Blogger : 7/7/2009 11:46:07 AM : 146 comments : 11,425 Views

The dailySpark recently featured a new website called Operation Beautiful in the weekly link round up. Because dailySpark readers responded so positively to the post about Operation Beautiful, we asked its founder, Caitlin, to tell us a little more about it.

My name is Caitlin, and I'm 25 years old. I began www.OperationBeautiful.com because I believe in a holistic approach to a healthy lifestyle -- it's not just about what you eat or how you work out, but the caring and thoughtful things you do for yourself and others, too.

In 2006, I got my fitness act together and transformed my life. I live in Orlando, Florida, with my college-sweetheart husband and our two dogs, James Bond and Maggie Thatcher, and we both love living a healthy, active life. I work two jobs and am also a part-time blogger (at www.HealthyTippingPoint.com, which is my personal food and fitness blog, and www.OperationBeautiful.com.


Caitlin also took some time to answer our questions about Operation Beautiful!

dailySpark: What is Operation Beautiful?

Caitlin: Operation Beautiful is simple; all you need is a pen and a piece of paper. I’ve begun leaving positive messages on the mirrors of public restrooms--at work, at the gym, at the grocery store. I scribble down whatever comes to mind--“You are beautiful!” or “You are amazing just the way you are!” Now, the Operation has spread beyond me, and hundreds of other women are participating. The women write notes and send them in, and then I post them on the site for thousands of others to enjoy.



dailySpark: How did the website get started?

Caitlin: I really believe healthy living involves three things: food, fitness, and spirit. You can eat perfectly and work out religiously, but if you don't take the time to reach out to other people in a positive way, you'll never be satisfied. Operation Beautiful started because I was looking for a way to spread joy to other people. From writing my own blog, I know how deep our body image issues run, and by reaching out to others, you can help yourself, too.

dailySpark: Why do you think these anonymous notes are catching on?

Caitlin: I think women are surprised to find that they are making themselves happier by posting these notes. Leaving a note on a bathroom mirror or in a gym leaves you with such a positive feeling inside! Operation Beautiful gives you hope and a high-on-life feeling!

dailySpark: What message are you trying to send to women?

Caitlin: My message is two-fold: first, that random acts of kindness are so powerful, both for the receiver and the giver. Second, I just want women to realize that they are beautiful--and I don't mean physically beautiful. Every one of us has an inner light that shines through and makes us unique. We've spent so much time, energy, emotion, and money trying to fit into society's narrow definition of physical beautiful. But if we accepted and embraced the way we are instead of trying to reach an unattainable ideal, we would be so much happier!



dailySpark: Tell us about your passion for ending "fat talk."

Caitlin: I hate, hate, hate fat talk. I used to do it--I would pull on a pair of pants and say "UGH, I am so fat!" or push my stomach out and say, "I shouldn't have eaten all that ice cream, I'm a fat pig!" But then one day I realized that all this negativity was actually making my eating and exercise problems worse. When I yelled at myself for eating dessert, I would just "give up" and eat more junk. When I told myself I was a lazy pig, I would just sit on the couch and mope. When you lift yourself up instead of breaking yourself down, life is so much easier! If you wouldn't say it to a friend, why say it to yourself? Also, I think women mistakenly use fat talk to cover up their real emotions. When you say "I am fat," you're really trying to say "I am full with an emotion," like shame or guilt. It's so much better to just acknowledge how we really feel and move onwards instead of berating our precious bodies.

dailySpark: Share a little about your own journey to healthy living.



Caitlin: I began running three years ago, after one of my best friends had an intervention with me about my unhealthy lifestyle. I had always wanted to be healthy, but I could just never embrace the lifestyle when I was younger. Plus, the real issue was that I was massively out of shape! I was also very unhappy with the relationship I had with food and exercise, and I knew I was the only person who could change it.

So at 21, I stopped beer-and-pizza dinners, started to lift weights, learned about nutrition and began to eat well, and took my first steps as a runner.... Running was HARD at first. I could barely go a quarter mile without dying. I kept up at it and one month after starting to exercise, I signed up for a 10K.

Eight weeks later, I completed my 10K in 61 minutes--and it was 30 degrees and snowing! Within a year of running, I had lost about 10 pounds and gained so much endurance and fitness. Now, I workout about four days a week, love to participate in races, and enjoy making new recipes to serve as healthy fuel.



dailySpark: What are some of the strangest/least likely/most surprising places that people have left notes?

Caitlin: My favorite place that people have left notes is on scales at the gym. As women, we focus too much on numbers. It is natural for your weight to fluctuate, and there is no "healthy weight" that fits all women. If you treat yourself well, eat good food, and try to get in some movement, you're doing a great job with your fitness journey. A scale can tell you how much you weight, but it cannot say how beautiful you are! I also like it when people go to grocery stores and stick notes on the diet bars and books.

dailySpark: Have you heard from anyone who has found the notes? What has been their reaction?

Caitlin: Yes! I got an e-mail from someone who found a note in the bathroom. She said she loved finding the message and it made her so happy. I've also heard feedback from women who posted the notes at work and overheard their coworkers discussing the notes. The coworkers say things like, "That note is so sweet! I wonder who did that?" and the poster just smiles and agrees that it was nice.

Have you participated in Operation Beautiful? Will you? Are you guilty of "fat talk"?

Photos courtesy of Operation Beautiful! (My submission is the main image! I left it in my teenage sister's bedroom when I went home for a visit.)

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TEAMDIABETES
8/22/2010
8:16:35 AM

What a wonderful idea!
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WINEDINETRAVEL
8/4/2010
9:07:28 AM

Thanks for the great idea!
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OMOMEADA
8/4/2010
6:30:14 AM

Im located in Lagos, Nigeria, West Africa. This is a very inspiring story. I will definately start leaving notes of kind messages, where ever I get the chance. Thanks for sharing.
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MCSNYDER1
7/11/2010
2:01:44 PM

I LOVE THIS!!!! I will go to that site right now!!!!
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SMLINGRL
7/8/2010
4:49:43 PM

Oh my goodness!! I totally found some of these notes on a bathroom mirror at my college!! I thought it was so cool, I took a picture of it! I just thought it was someone nutty like me, and I thought it was so cool that she wanted to make my day special. So she did!!

I think this is awesome!!
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SM-ARTGIRL
6/23/2010
9:07:49 AM

Elegant, empowering and lovely action on behalf of women everywhere! Fabulous Caitlin!
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PSMITH3841
6/17/2010
12:36:45 PM

I love the "Leaving kind words" idea....I'm going to start doing that!
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KJE_3001
6/14/2010
11:51:49 PM

I am amazed at the kindness and insight one person can have! I have made a lot of changes in my life towards becoming healthy, but this is one area I do need to work on. Caitlin has inspired me to do better...
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SWJADECO
4/6/2010
1:42:40 PM

What insight to have in your 20's! I LOVE this idea!
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SUZYMARC
4/5/2010
4:41:37 PM

I will most definitely be looking at this site. What a wonderful idea to do random acts of kindness and brighten someone's day, who may truly need it.
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SHANNON267
4/1/2010
8:13:51 PM

I have to check out your website!!! I love this idea!! You are amazing and beautiful!
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GALICIAD
4/1/2010
12:17:30 AM

Thank you for the inspiration to begin this lovely variation of a random act of kindness. Operation Beautiful is something everyone who encounters a posting can enjoy and take to heart.
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SUNSHINE84
3/29/2010
2:12:06 PM

THANK YOU for sharing the beauty within to help us with the outside beauty!
You are a true GEM!
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SISSYFEB48
3/28/2010
6:49:49 PM

Just wonderful. Hope it continues to spread...I will do my part as well.
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GINGERVISTA
3/28/2010
2:44:25 PM

Ever since reading the original article, I posted it on Facebook & keep pen/paper in my backpacks & purse, so I'm ready to go! Keep forgetting, but this week on campus I'll make my first post (or tomorrow in dr's office). Can't WAIT!
Wish somebody had started this when I was about 40 years younger....starting with my mother, that's all I heard was 'fat talk' & my sister & I weren't even FAT! Sis had nice figure & I was skinny, so absolutely ADORE this movement...
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ORIMOVUO2
3/28/2010
12:10:25 PM

i like this.enough of the fat talk.
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KB9906
3/28/2010
11:10:41 AM

What a great idea! I'm going to start carrying a pen and notepad with me.
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TCJEAN
3/27/2010
11:17:02 PM

I LOVE this blog post!!
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JULNELS0N
3/27/2010
4:14:54 PM

Great Idea! I'm going to look through my supply of Post-Its today so I can leave some notes at church tomorrow.
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EACHDAYAGIFT
3/5/2010
10:04:20 AM

What a fun idea, even a shy person can participate! I agree, we women need to turn things around for ourselves and especially the younger women. With all the plastic surgery in Hollywood, the standards are even more unrealistic, and the pressure to never look "old" is a cruel slap in the face to us more mature souls. I particularly liked, "your beauty is in your smile", I'm gonna post that one for myself!
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MESSYJESSY22
2/20/2010
9:09:18 PM

Great idea! We need more love and less hate talk, even about ourselves. We're way too critical of one another. Can't wait to try this out.
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JACQUEBLUE1
2/18/2010
10:59:49 AM

LOVE IT!! I have 2 young Daughters and I DO NOT want them to self loath over weight the way I do! You can count on me to be a Post-It Leaver!!
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BLUEIZ07
2/6/2010
11:07:07 AM

Love it !!! Love it!!! Love it!!! I'll have to get some cute, colorful post-its and go for it!!! I love doing random acts of kindness, but I love that this encourages us to remember that beauty is not what's on the outside! Too many young girls(and adults) get the wrong message about their self-worth and their body image! Thanks for starting a revolution!!!
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MCADDISON
2/5/2010
9:28:44 AM

I already do random acts of kindness and have instilled the practice in my children. It does a mother's heart good to see them carry it through once in a while. But I love the note idea! Also, I will try to curb my "Fat Talk" too. You are right. I would never say that to my friends. I am the one who always does the encouraging. Maybe now I can encourage myself! Thanks for the lightbulb!
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EMMALOU55
2/5/2010
6:36:27 AM

What a great idea! I can't wait to try it.
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JIBBIE49
1/11/2010
1:41:43 PM

It is great to tell yourself you are beautiful, BUT actions speak louder than words.
The fact is MEN judge women by their looks.
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OCMOMOF2KIDDOS
12/31/2009
4:28:55 PM

I think I just might participate. It is a great idea and might make someone's day.
I know it would for me.
I am definitely guilty of fat talk. That is something I need to stop for the new year.
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MSAGGIE73
12/5/2009
4:50:51 PM

Wow, I so enjoyed this. Thank you Caitlin for sharing this with us. I need post its now:-)
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MAROO358
11/28/2009
7:40:01 PM

Inspiring! Thank you Caitlin!
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LULULOWRY
11/3/2009
8:49:56 AM

Reading this just totally made my morning! I am leaving to go to a convention in a couple of days and I am going to buy Post-It notes today to take with me. I can hardly wait!
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GRANDMO1
11/2/2009
11:01:25 AM

What an amazing woman who an awesome idea into practice! Thank you for the motivation and inspiration. I am going to try it today and for ever.
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NEED2LOSE45
11/1/2009
6:30:19 PM

I just love this. I have thought of places all week that I can stick a note. For starters my own mirror. Downing myself has become a favorite past time. My ex husband can't do it so I took over for him...Not anymore....Where is the pen and paper.
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DIVINEROGUE
10/20/2009
2:47:21 PM

What an amazing concept!

I joined the facebook group and sent invites to all of my friends.

Such a simple concept - I'm packing post-it's and a pen in my bag and will be armed and ready!
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KRISTIELEGGE21
10/20/2009
10:12:59 AM

What a great way to brighten someones day. I like this idea and I will begin to leave notes to :)
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WALLOWA
10/20/2009
12:40:48 AM

I love it! YOU are beautiful!
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AMICHT
10/19/2009
9:07:15 PM

I am so deeply moved and inspired by your idea! THANK YOU for what you've done for others. I'm going to join your followers and start leaving notes too!!!
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PUZZLEPIECES67
10/5/2009
9:25:14 PM

This just makes me happy! I'll pay it forward.
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DOGLOVER526
10/5/2009
4:20:58 PM

What a great idea! I truly believe our self-talk has the power to affect us. We have to start loving ourselves all of the time - inside and out!!!
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MAYASMOM23
10/5/2009
3:24:46 PM

I love this! This is brilliant. I will definitely do this. I love random acts of kindness, as long as no one knows it's me. ;)
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ESCOBEDO
9/25/2009
2:53:14 PM

I'm gonna leave a note somewhere today and I'm gonna make it a habit to carry a sticky pad in my purse so I can leave more notes around whereever I go. =)
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BUGGIRL19
9/25/2009
1:50:37 PM

I'm going to post one in the ladies room today. :)
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XHOOSIERLOSER
9/3/2009
10:37:31 AM

This is a great idea. I'm starting right now! Thanks - - great blog, great idea! You are beautiful!!!!
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IMPERIODEE
9/3/2009
9:55:25 AM

woow. will definitely do this.
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PHOENIX85
8/28/2009
2:00:07 PM

This is such a wonderful idea!! I am very guilty of the "fat talk". I have not been happy with my body for years! I am using the tools I am finding here to help me stop! I can't wait to try this out at work! It is such an inspiring move!
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LITTLEMISSB
8/26/2009
12:19:59 PM

There was a message on the side walk on my running route a few weeks ago. "You are beautiful! ... Yes, You!" I'd not heard of the project before this article though.
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GRANDMARANDI
8/24/2009
2:35:59 PM

Thank you!!! It is so easy to do and what blessing to give or read a positive note. I will be doing this.
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FUNNIROSI
7/21/2009
12:39:44 PM

What a great idea!!
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STACELENAE
7/17/2009
6:19:31 AM

I love this idea... we all should spread kindness and love to everyone!

Here is one of my favorite scriptures in the bible.

Be Your Own Kind of Beautiful
“The Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart” (1 Sam. 16:7).




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ARTISTICA
7/16/2009
1:54:39 PM

Very sweet. I think it's a great idea! I work for Big Brothers Big Sisters and I'm going to encourage our Bigs & Littles to do it!
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FITNHEALTHY007
7/16/2009
12:53:47 PM

This is a great idea. I will usually compliment a stranger if I find they are pretty or have gorgeous hair or skin...etc. Their reaction is one of pure joy and surprise. I KNOW, my compliment has made their day. :-)
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