What is Your True Size?
I don’t know about you, but for the past several years clothes shopping has become more of a headache than the nice enjoyable activity it once was. Sadly, for me the fun is long gone and is replaced with countless hours of frustrations. There was once a time I could go into any store, pick something right off the rack, make a purchase and go home. But not today. That would be too easy. Like a hunter searching for his prey, I head out early in the morning just as the stores are opening while I still have the energy for what I presume to be a day long mission. After trying pants after pants, hour after hour, store after store, I find myself literally worn out heading home more times than not dejected and empty handed. While the styles and trends do count for many of my frustrations--I am not a BIG fan of the low rise trend--just finding a size has become a chore. In one store I can easily be a size 4, in another a size 6, and yet another I could wear a size 8. And let’s not even talk about online purchases without knowing beforehand my size in a store. Why is that? Well the answer lies within a sales tactic that clothing manufacturers discreetly call vanity sizing. So what exactly is vanity sizing and how did it come to be? Knowing how women are glued to being a certain size, the clothing manufacturers researched and learned that women like being a smaller size. As a consequence, the manufacturers discovered that women are willing to spend more money just to have a smaller size on a tag. In other words if you have two pairs of identical jeans with the same identical waist measurements--one store labels it a size 10 priced for $20 and another store labels it a size 6 for $50, according to the research, more of us would choose the latter just to have the smaller size in our closet. This trend is especially more prevalent in higher end stores where sizes tend to run smaller even though they are the exact numeric size as their less expensive counterparts. Because there is no industry standard, we, as women, must succumb to the scrutiny of looking high and low for the perfect size in EACH individual store. As a result, when I find the size I can wear at that particular store, I come home and put all the data in an Excel spreadsheet. So the next time I am in search of the perfect pant, jean, blouse, etc. all I have to do is pull out my handy-dandy cheat sheet and just pray that the clothing manufacturers haven’t decided to re-vanity size their items since my last shopping escapade. I would like to believe I am one standard size, as it was in days of my youth, but that is now a thing of the past. This is one reason why we, as women, need to liberate ourselves from the size on the tag and just buy what fits regardless of the games the manufacturers are willing to play. Would you spend more money just to have a smaller tag on an article of clothing? How much more would you be willing to spend for that smaller size tag? Do you find it frustrating that there is no standard sizing between stores? ![]() You will earn 3 SparkPoints NEXT ENTRY > Boost Your Metabolism the Natural Way |
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SHEILAS71
6/6/2010
12:50:19 AM
MSREMUS119
4/30/2010
3:31:18 AM
MIEZEKATZE
4/29/2010
4:05:02 PM
If not, it sounds like there could be a market for one! My boyfriend would love to buy my clothes, but he never knows what size I am!
FUTBOLPLYR7
4/29/2010
3:18:32 PM
It would be awesome to have clothing measure in inches like men's clothing. I know that a lot of women don't want clothing measured in inches because they don't want others to know how many inches around their waist, thighs, bust, etc is... but again, let's be honest. People may not know exact inches, but they can see you. And with men... if your husband or boyfriend finds you attractive, they're not going to suddenly go "OMG, YOUR WAIST IS HOW MANY INCHES?!" and run away. They don't care, trust me.
My (patient) husband went jeans shopping with me. I told him it would be long and arduous, but he went anyway. I am 5'10" and wear an 8-10. He was amazed at how many pairs of pants I could go through of varying sizes and styles, and how jeans were not universally flattering. Safe to say he has a new respect for a well-fitting pair of jeans. =)
ANGBART80
4/28/2010
12:21:10 PM
DAKOTANMISTY
4/28/2010
10:27:05 AM
Totally true about no uniformed size charts for the different labels/stores. Every Christmas or Birthday, my DB has the hardest time shopping for clothes for me. One day, he shook his head at me, and said I have no idea what size jeans you wear, your dresser has 6, 8, 10, 12, 14.....which is it? I just sorta smirked and said it depends. Last Christmas, we were shopping for family gifts, and I tried on a pair of jeans, and said-here-you can give me these. He sighed and said that saves me a whole lotta hassel LOL now what size shirt do you want to go with it?
UMBLAH21
4/28/2010
10:22:30 AM
MEGLYNNEG
12/28/2009
11:05:29 AM
POSTMODERNME
12/27/2009
9:13:12 PM
OMAMARY
12/27/2009
4:48:54 PM
HEYNONNYNONNY
12/27/2009
4:11:05 PM
NEW_HUSKER_MAMA
12/27/2009
12:37:43 AM
Clothing prices have just about gotten to the point where I'd rather sew my own clothes rather than buy something off the rack... at least I know it'd fit right!
CYNDERWHOTOO
12/24/2009
10:38:16 PM
LAWLI56
12/24/2009
8:32:31 AM
FITNSPARKIN
12/23/2009
8:57:47 PM
MRSKITTKITT
12/23/2009
4:53:59 PM
JENNI92871
12/23/2009
3:41:24 PM
GATHERINGLEAF
12/23/2009
3:39:36 PM
HISFUTUREMRSJ
12/23/2009
3:27:45 PM
TIALENA
12/23/2009
5:04:59 AM
LEXIFAY
12/22/2009
10:24:10 PM
LELEA3
12/22/2009
10:17:41 PM
RARAAVIS
12/22/2009
9:30:32 PM
i would never spend more on something just because it had a lower size tag. no way. i don't care what the size is. it is a nice reality check for me anyway. besides, who is going to see that tag? no one. ridiculous.
TLSPEARS1
12/21/2009
11:40:41 AM
I refuse to pay more for anything that doesn't fit well and is comfortable regardless of the tag size. Yes I love saying I have some size 6 jeans but I don't pay extra for them. Unfortunately tall sizes are even harder fine in size 6 then in 8/10.
JHUBKA84
12/21/2009
10:57:05 AM
NIKEIT2009
12/19/2009
4:39:23 PM
I have started to shop in the "womens" department because most XL are not a true XL anymore. I will not spend more money just to wear a smaller size either :( I am what I am for now LOL This whole "vanity" sizing is a complete waste of my shopping time.
CLAIREMZM
12/19/2009
12:33:24 PM
LIZZIE888
12/19/2009
4:49:05 AM
4SCOTT
12/19/2009
12:50:04 AM
PO_PAZZA
12/18/2009
9:50:02 PM
LADYIRIS313
12/18/2009
4:24:04 PM
HEALTHY541
12/18/2009
12:11:26 PM
KITTYF54
12/18/2009
8:34:32 AM
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HOLALOLA
12/17/2009
11:29:18 AM
The frustrating part is having to try on three pairs of every jean to figure out if it fits or not because each store or brand is different. At one point I had shorts and jeans that were sizes 5, 8, and 11, and they all fit perfectly. Talk about inconsistent!
TAMMYLOU96
12/17/2009
9:23:05 AM
Someone posted about no one knows what size you are wearing. That is true, but I knew and I felt like a million bucks in that dress and that is what matters!
JESSBLUE22
12/17/2009
6:00:54 AM
I do agree with the poster who said the overall effect of de-regulating sizes has decreased size awareness. Sometimes I fantasize about the ease of men's shopping.
Interesting comments, all. And props to the women who spoke up about going for the smaller label. Even though I don't think I would- I'll admit its nice to see that smaller size. Thing is- advertisers study and act on observed consumer behaviors that we might not even notice or admit to ourselves! If they're doing it 'we' as a whole must be responding with our dollar.
LMSTRAW
12/17/2009
1:57:37 AM
WALLOWA
12/16/2009
11:18:06 PM
MINDHORIZON
12/16/2009
9:31:34 PM
I do get a little worried about sizes because I am already down to a size 6P or even 4P in some things, and I am still some 20 or so pounds away from my ideal weight. What size will I be then, and where will I find them? Some stores don't stock 0P or 2P.
My understanding is that at one time, sizing was regulated. Maybe we need to petition for them to be regulated again.
RIKKIELLE
12/16/2009
6:50:39 PM
LINBUTLER
12/16/2009
12:42:18 PM
SOKOLATITSA
12/16/2009
12:42:09 PM
I do feel better when a smaller size fits me but no, I wouldn't pay more for it as I never look at the tag after buying anyway... The sizing system is indeed frustrating, as you can end up in a dressing room with 15 items "your size" and not fit in any of them. Which actually happened to me the other day, I was kinda forced into a shop with good quality clothing to get a dress for a wedding and ended up in the dressing room with 15 dresses recommended (both size and style) by the saleswoman of which i liked none and fit in just one (probably the worst of them all!). Plus they were ridiculously expensive. It was ironic, all in all, that I felt bad I couldn't wear clothes I didn't even like...wanted to laugh so much!
I will definitely be sticking with stores I know my size in. The Excel thing is smart but I can't be bothered to be honest. 4 stores are more than enough to find simple jeans,black pants and tops.
MTRAND2
12/16/2009
10:12:38 AM
Now I just bought a pair of Chico pants, second hand, and I saw "size 1." It baffled me at the store, but I took them, and they fit, and I figured that it was second-hand because they labeled the size tag wrong. I am like a 14 or something! How ridiculous (and interesting) that these pants that say size 1 fit me!
I also hate shopping because these huge sizes in the mall are too tight. Makes me feel bad. So I guess I buy right into it. Ugh..
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12/15/2009
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